I'm rather shy and find it difficult to post in forums, but my worries have overwritten my shyness.
I'm an ISFP who hidden my true self to someone who I believe is an ISFJ, she is diagnosed with asperger' syndrome (like myself)
I concealed myself before I knew her more because I feared that she would not be interested in me; for my lack of confidence and introversion. I'm a fool for letting my fear control me.
As I slowly revealed myself more, she became more distant, though still messages me. Although I've revealed myself more, I'm still appearing light hearted and unaffected.
Her distancing is making it worse for me, only causing to me push her away more with trying harder. She has no idea how much it's been affecting me.
I just wish to talk to her rather than wait long periods of time, first it's been days, then weeks, then a month, now weeks to hear from her. I want to get to know her as a person.
She's lovely, very friendly and smiles a lot, but just doesn't trust me, won't open up and very wary. I'm at a loss and it's really getting me down, we've been in touch since the beginning of February 2012.
If you need more information just ask, I don't want to write anything too long as my first message. Any help or advice would be sincerely appreciated:)
Thank you for reading,