[Marvinteck]

[B]
I've just notice that out of all the 16 different types..... Guess which one that rarely ever had a alcohol or drug addiction???



Yup.. you guessed it. ISFJ's..... Wow, imagine that???

Done at least nine drugs since my teen years and struggled with addictions to five of them. I used to smoke two packs of cigarettes a day before quit smoking close to two years ago. Hard liquor was my alcohol of choice and have lost count how many times I have gotten blacking out drunk to the point of passing out on the floor trying to run away from myself. Some nights I was to afraid to go to sleep because I was afraid I would forget to breath because my breathing was that labored from all the alcohol I had consumed. Considering all the drugs I've done , the heavy drinking, reckless behavior and suicide attempts by all rights I should not still be here. You definitely are not alone in your struggles with drugs and alcohol. My ISFJ personality drove me towards the drugs.

[Medea]

^That's a shame I'm sorry.

[Marvinteck]

^That's a shame I'm sorry.

Its no big deal, Live and learn. Im sober now and trying to learn how to deal with my emotions instead of running away from them by using.

[Medea]

Well that's good at least then. :)

[jamescarrolls]

Done at least nine drugs since my teen years and struggled with addictions to five of them. I used to smoke two packs of cigarettes a day before quit smoking close to two years ago. Hard liquor was my alcohol of choice and have lost count how many times I have gotten blacking out drunk to the point of passing out on the floor trying to run away from myself. Some nights I was to afraid to go to sleep because I was afraid I would forget to breath because my breathing was that labored from all the alcohol I had consumed. Considering all the drugs I've done , the heavy drinking, reckless behavior and suicide attempts by all rights I should not still be here. You definitely are not alone in your struggles with drugs and alcohol. My ISFJ personality drove me towards the drugs.

Let me respond to that... but not here. Ok???

[Marvinteck]

Let me respond to that... but not here. Ok???

Ok

I wasnt trying to throw the thread off track. I agree the post needs to stay on the original subject.

[jamescarrolls]

Ok

I wasnt trying to throw the thread off track. I agree the post needs to stay on the original subject.

Oh.. no no.... I'm grateful to meet your aquaintance and you spoke.

[Marvinteck]

Oh.. no no.... I'm grateful to meet your aquaintance and you spoke.

I got your Private message. Unfortunately i cant respond back due to forum rules saying i need to have at least 15 post to pm other members. Ill be more than happy to respond to your message once the system lets me. nice meeting you btw.

[jamescarrolls]

What about you Miss Liminality?

Miss Rowan?

Miss STS?

Miss MorningGlory?

I also need more females perspective.

How do you ladies feel about hugs and kiss's if your companion was the type. Would that offend you or feel somewhat as if it is inappropriate???

Or would you guys give me two black eyes and throw me across the table!!!

For being a moron.

[sts06]

How do you ladies feel about hugs and kiss's if your companion was the type. Would that offend you or feel somewhat as if it is inappropriate???

I lived in Brazil for a year so I'm totally relaxed and at home with the idea of both kissing/hugging affection between the sexes and with verbal endearments. In fact I call everyone some sort of loving nickname: sweety, kitten, love, dear, sweetpea etc etc.

Bring on the kisses and hugs I say! Actually I'm quite reticent with it for myself but seeing my significant other doing it with others? Doesn't bother me at all. But Medea is right -- it's situational and what the person is comfortable with. If you are very open and she isn't then I think you both need to talk about why you do/do not like the affection.