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Hi everyone! A friend of mine introduced me to this website and I figured it would be a great way to get to know more about myself. ENFP is the M-B result I've been getting for the past few years and agree wholeheartedly with that result. I'll describe myself somewhat in order by letters.

I NEED other people in order to feel happy and I hate being alone for too long. I'm comfortable with myself and who I am, but I just always need to express that to those around me. There are some times when I need to be alone, but they are pretty rare and generally only when I've been really hurt by something. I hate dealing with little details and the individual components of ideas and plans...I just want to see it happen! I get frustrated when people are so wrapped up in small stuff that they forget the overall goal.

My F is ridiculously strong. I have a lot of feelings and they weigh heavily on me at all times. I react emotionally which has gotten me into a lot of trouble at times, but my intentions are always good. Like, I could just talk about how flawed my logic can be all day long. For a P, my initial reaction is almost always judgment, but I am easily dissauded from what notions I have originally. I only judge in cases where the wrongs are very obvious. I like making decisions that leave me with some flexibility to change my mind and alter my course based on other ideas and feelings that I have about a situation.

General info about me....
I'm a sociologgy major. I love thinking about what makes society behave in certain ways and how negative social norms can be changed. I recently did a life changing internship at the White House and learned a lot about myself. I love running, but haven't been doing it too much lately. I write but I've had a serious case of writer's block for quite some time and haven't really tackled it yet. I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now with an ISTJ and we're starting to see some severe personality clashes that we're not sure how to deal with. So if anyone has any advice there, I'd appreciate it. Anyway, that's about it for me for now. Feel free to be in contact if you wish. I look forward to interacting with everyone and growing in who I am. And HAPPY HOILDAYS! :)

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Originally Posted by vivalamusica2012

Hi everyone! A friend of mine introduced me to this website and I figured it would be a great way to get to know more about myself. ENFP is the M-B result I've been getting for the past few years and agree wholeheartedly with that result. I'll describe myself somewhat in order by letters.

I NEED other people in order to feel happy and I hate being alone for too long. I'm comfortable with myself and who I am, but I just always need to express that to those around me. There are some times when I need to be alone, but they are pretty rare and generally only when I've been really hurt by something. I hate dealing with little details and the individual components of ideas and plans...I just want to see it happen! I get frustrated when people are so wrapped up in small stuff that they forget the overall goal.

My F is ridiculously strong. I have a lot of feelings and they weigh heavily on me at all times. I react emotionally which has gotten me into a lot of trouble at times, but my intentions are always good. Like, I could just talk about how flawed my logic can be all day long. For a P, my initial reaction is almost always judgment, but I am easily dissauded from what notions I have originally. I only judge in cases where the wrongs are very obvious. I like making decisions that leave me with some flexibility to change my mind and alter my course based on other ideas and feelings that I have about a situation.

General info about me....
I'm a sociologgy major. I love thinking about what makes society behave in certain ways and how negative social norms can be changed. I recently did a life changing internship at the White House and learned a lot about myself. I love running, but haven't been doing it too much lately. I write but I've had a serious case of writer's block for quite some time and haven't really tackled it yet. I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now with an ISTJ and we're starting to see some severe personality clashes that we're not sure how to deal with. So if anyone has any advice there, I'd appreciate it. Anyway, that's about it for me for now. Feel free to be in contact if you wish. I look forward to interacting with everyone and growing in who I am. And HAPPY HOILDAYS! :)

Greetings vivalamusica! Welcome to PersonalityCafe! Thank you very much for joining our humble little forum. We hope you have a great time with us! Always great to see an ENFP sister join. I am highly looking forward to reading some of your post.

Welcome to the cafe, a rather textbook ENFP. If you could be specific, what sort of issues are you experiencing with your ISTJ?

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Welcome darlin'.

Dated an ESTJ, the Extraversion to her was brilliant. However, the T and J really really clashed and rarely complimented my easier going F and P. I dunno I think I hung on there because the attraction was so strong. I've come across a few posts agreeing that STJs are like super-attractive for ENFPs..and it seems to almost always end in tears. But you know everyone is different despite what MB tells us, it's those subtle differnece in character and experience that make us all unique. The big thing I found was the inability of STJs to vocalise feelings, and not being able to communicate openly. I'm not suggesting your relationship is the same but this drove me nuts and I wouldn't want to repeat the experience! If it means alot to you, sit him down and smooth out your differnces. Look up his personality type and see if you can find something that will aid your discussions.
Hope this hepls!

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