Sarcastic, humourless, arrogant, aloof, bitchy... I don't see them as criticisms. Just the un-enlightened needing to vent. If I don't find something funny its because its not, if I am sarcastic deal with it, if i appear arrogant it might be because just maybe I DO know more than you. And now the chick part of me is feeling bad that i really shouldn't be thinking or saying things like this but in a way Its kind of freeing knowing that all these multi-faceted parts of me are there for a reason and purpose and that bloody hell they are going to work together. I sometimes fake "good" feelings towards others and finally get that as well.