Hey! My name's Katherine and I am new to the forum, but I've had an interest in the MBTI for a while and whenever I did a search for anything Myers Briggs related I'd always come up with very interesting discussions from here. Just so you know I'm an INFP and a type 4 with the enneagrams... I know what's said about the forer effect when it comes to enneagrams, but I just have to say that it was dead-on for me, and I know this because it went into my melancholic moods - so completely true of me. I not only feel intensely (to the point of near shut down), but I am have an aesthetic attraction to things that are rife with tragedy and sadness. The one thing I have yet to conquer is how intensely being upset with someone affects me. My passion works against me, and if I have to be around them I can barely look them in the eye and I can barely speak - I just have to get away and be alone. That's happened recently :-\ I'm in love with someone and since we're not together the only thing I can cherish is how miserable he makes me. I'm here to empower myself with the strength of familiars.