[downsowf]

I'm curious to see whether INTPs can answer this question.

So often I hear what we are looking for in another person and that others can't measure up to certain standards we have.

What about standards that other people find value in? How do you think you measure up to those?

What do you offer someone else?

The question is not limited to romantic partners. You could discuss how you think you are a valuable friend.

Be as vain as you want. I'm interested to see how vain INTPs could get. If you're confident with the way you look physically, then by all means don't be restrained in saying so.



And, yes, I'm considerably bored or else I wouldn't have made this stupid thread.

[Haldir]

You might be waiting a long time with the perfect storm of self-deprecation that goes on around here so I'll drop you a reply. I think people appreciate that I don't leave them hanging. Like hanging with a thread with no replies.

[downsowf]

You might be waiting a long time with the perfect storm of self-deprecation that goes on around here so I'll drop you a reply. I think people appreciate that I don't leave them hanging. Like hanging with a thread with no replies.

haha. Thanks for the pity reply. I'm definitely expecting a fair amount of self-deprecation.

[nadjasix]

I make a conscious effort to be supportive of my SO's goals. And I have been complimented for this.

Other than that, I got nuthin'...

[Allwing]

INTPs are great at realizing they aren't that great...or maybe that's just me...

What makes me attractive? Well...I have a quirky personality and I am "that person" who says the thing everyone is thinking but no one wants to say. I have been told that I have a nice ass and I'm very skinny. I'm not afraid to have some fun! I like to drive fast and climb on the roof of my school and pull pranks on people and all that fun stuff! I'm decent at playing piano as well because I work my butt off at it (and where I'm from there aren't too many good players so I am one of the better players in my school). I also genuinely care about people and I am extremely loyal.
Some people also appreciate that I can have "deep" conversations about damn near anything. Some people don't care though.
That goes for everything though, I suppose. What I may consider my better qualities other people may hate about me.

And there's the positive side of my self-image in a nutshell!

[TheCrucible]

My genuine, caring, and engaging personality, and my physical body. Heard that what women find attractive varies greatly though?

[Richard]

Uuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhh,

This is like one of those job interviews I’ll probably have to face one day where they ask me what my good qualities are, I’ll be fucked.

The only thing I can think of that would work for me, with the right sort of person, would probably be my striving for honesty in communication.
Besides that......yeah.

Le trainwreck.

[downsowf]

This thread is going to be like pulling teeth.

The ENTJs would love this thread.

No more ego-boosts from other people.

Tell me why you're awesome.

I think it's important to have a healthy amount of confidence in one's looks, capabilities, etc., without relying on the validation of other people's opinions.

[Blue Screen of Feels]

They say I make them feel special and I stand out, or something. Being around this forum doesn't make me feel so 'outstanding' but yeaaah.

Just the whole awkwardness and caring and how I really support them. I am the listener kind which helps a lot.

[downsowf]

INTPs are great at realizing they aren't that great...or maybe that's just me...

What makes me attractive? Well...I have a quirky personality and I am "that person" who says the thing everyone is thinking but no one wants to say. I have been told that I have a nice ass and I'm very skinny. I'm not afraid to have some fun! I like to drive fast and climb on the roof of my school and pull pranks on people and all that fun stuff! I'm decent at playing piano as well because I work my butt off at it (and where I'm from there aren't too many good players so I am one of the better players in my school). I also genuinely care about people and I am extremely loyal.
Some people also appreciate that I can have "deep" conversations about damn near anything. Some people don't care though.
That goes for everything though, I suppose. What I may consider my better qualities other people may hate about me.

And there's the positive side of my self-image in a nutshell!

Yes. If you have a nice ass then be proud of it.