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This is a discussion on where to find INTP girls within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by theoreticalenigma Bahaha, this is me. INTP hermits for the win....
Being an INTP Male, Wanting to meet an INTP Woman.
To achieve that we will first have to overcome.
- We are both going to be in hiding, away from public
- In the event we meet in a forced function we will not initiate conversation but instead steal glances and pretend not to be interested.
- And IF we do have a conversation, assuming non of the Es steal our attention, we will spend the whole time trying to figure if he/she is an INTP
- and IF we do think we know the other party is an INTP, we will continue to spend the next 3 days questioning our logic.
- AND when we do conclude that he/she is an INTP we realize we didn't ask for their number...well not that we didn't ask, but we couldn't ask.
I am tempted to continue explaining how unlikely the meeting could be, but i just realized that it actually might be possible.
Damn it... now i have hope....
Gaia online is swarming with them.
I'll do multiple situations here-
At the mall - I'll usually be the one dragging my INFP friend away from something in a sad attempt to make her realize she can't have something no matter how much she wants it or envisions having it/ being dragged away from something by her after trying to think of the ways in which I could possibly improvise with means I already have/own something I'll never be able to have either.
Eating - Examining every bite of food before I eat it. Especially chicken nuggets - anything already chopped up is good thought-inducing material.
In a crowd/parties/using public transportation/around unfamiliar people - Constant side glares and possible ipod abuse. Unless I'm having fun (I'm developing an increasing weakness for dancing. I even got an indirect comment on my rhythm.) - then I usually end up doing something that would make anyone else feel embarrassed, but since I'm incapable of being embarrassed through self-initiated actions I don't care.
But mostly I hide in my room and growl when anyone comes in.
This probably has already been said. I'm too lazy to check.
But surely, the best place to find INTP girls... is where INTP girls think the INTP boys will be looking for them, or where the INTP girls are looking for INTP boys.
I know as an INTP woman, I'm kind of oblivious to male attention. Sure, I may be able to understand that a person likes me, but I'm normally too shy or indecisive to make the first move. If I like a guy, usually I'll try to feel out what he may think and then decide to tell him. Nothing gained by not going out on a limb every once in a while, no?
I know I'm pretty spacey, and up in the clouds a lot of the time, but I know that providing a person is willing to float with me here and there, I'm usually willing to give them a chance.
The problem is that men think that we won't give them a chance... so they don't approach us in the first place. It also can't help that we have invisible Police Line, Do Not Cross tape wrapped around our bodies.