Has anyone tried to be in a relationship with someone of the same personality type? I am an INTP and was with a girl who was also an INTP and it was awesome. I really felt like I was with someone who could understand me...and I would venture so far as to say I felt like I met my soulmate. Now being the logical thinker, I'm curious to see if this feeling was just a byproduct of being with someone who was the personality type, and that's why they understood me. Unfortunately it ended...she wasn't good at communicating her feelings and even though it took me a while to learn how to do this, I was able to. Relationship books say the same personality types are difficult, but all have a disclaimer saying that if both people try hard, any type can work. Please state your personality type and your experience when making a comment.