I dated an INTP girl briefly, and I was super excited about her, but for various reasons it didn't work out (although I wish it had). I've usually dated ExxJ types before, and this INTP experience was so different, it made me really happy. My girlfriend before her was ESFJ... the opposite of me, and now I see that we were too different.
Do you all think that a relationship might be missing something if I don't have someone with a few different traits (such as J)? I'm a very strong P, and also strong in N, but more balanced in T/F and I/E although I'm definitely a science-y introvert type at the core. I've grown frustrated with the extreme-J types I've dated in the past, and I think another INTP (or ENTP) is just what I need, but I'd like your perspectives.
I'm also really passionate about music, and it makes me wonder if I need an F instead of T type... but I love emotional stuff as well as thinking-type things. My real question may be: how to find a balanced girl who is into music as well as math and science like I am?
Thanks for any input... I'm pretty new to personality-type stuff, but it's really fascinating me now that I experienced how different it was to date another INTP. It changed my perspectives on my past relationships, and the women who I used to think of as my "dream girls" suddenly don't seem appealing to me any more... it was neat to find someone who really understood me. Do I need another INTP to find that again, or would ENTP or maybe INFP also be a good match? Or do I need that "J" balance even though I am tired of the "J"s in my past?