I've dated an intp for a year and a half and I think I have noticed significant changes in my paradigm, values, and personality. In a way I feel more like an intp/entj. I feel like her needs have molded me in a way. At the beginning of our relationship, communication was difficult. I was deeply depressed and she had a hard time being authentic. I took everything she said personally, and as a result I faked myself to please her. Over time we both learned a lot more about ourselves and how inauthentic we were being. We realized our differences and I think adjusted accordingly (easier said than done). Now that we have solved everything.....now that I understand her perspective a lot better than I did (with special help from personality cafe also ;D ) I feel less infp.
I find it somewhat hard to follow my feelings down without stepping back and saying.....that feeling is irrational. I may get hurt by someone and I will tell myself.....that is ok.....they are just using a different cognitive function....their place in life is just as important as yours.....let them perceive the world how they are meant to. Then I don't feel hurt. The result? I feel a little bored honestly. I want to feel the intense emotions I used to...it's ho hum kind of......I feel like an NF who stumbled into NT territory......I kind of like it....but I still miss NF world. I like the predictability and control I get from this NTish reality. But I don't know.....something does not feel right. Just because I have stumbled in NT territory doesn't mean I am not just as aware of my emotions. But my emotions recently have been rather dry.....blah....bland....ho hum. Do NTs feel this way as well? Or does it not bother you as much because you are not as in touch with emotions as I am? (That sounded douche baggish but I honestly just want to know ...because I don't)
Also, I am not sure if I really am in NT world. It is only NTish.....I have no way of knowing if the reality I am experiencing is equivalent to that of an authentic NT......and who is to say they are an authentic NT anyway?.....maybe we are everything. In fact I have been thinking about this. Perhaps we are just pulled into .....different poles of.....our psyche.......different poles....of cognitive functions. Maybe if you start using Fi for example.....it will suck you in.
I dunno. I got off subject. But yea.