Let's start off plain and simple.
My partner, ENFP.
[I'm talking a romantic relationship and this little bit here doesn't reflect an INTP/ENFP friendship. It really touches on how that particular ENFP affects this INTP]
As an INTP in a relationship with an ENFP, I find it tolerable at best.
Before calling it quits, however, I like to think things through to make sure it's what I really want. [sometimes I view things so objectively, I rarely think of how decisions would make ME FEEL, and oftentimes the things I feel are unexpected, and rarely positive, however short-lived, but I'm trying not to make those mistakes so I won't waste time thinking what it could've been as opposed to accepting what becomes of it.]
back to the topic on hand:
I could go on for days about how he's extremely clingy, unusually selfish (and quite unaware of it), and pretty demanding. He has to have my attention 100% of the time and rarely appreciates when I do the things he asks. [e.g. when I call him, he asks why I didn't call sooner]
I mean, I've never been one for affection and in most cases, I find it annoying when someone is too affectionate.
Sometimes I feel like I'm not meant to be with anyone, and I've become quite fond of that thought.
ANYWAY. I was wondering if it's just me, or has any other INTPs had any relationships with an ENFP that wasn't exactly ideal (and what made it that way?)
Also any ENFP's who want to contribute whatever it is that you don't like about an INTP if you've been in a relationship with them would be interesting also.
Also, do you just think that INTP's are just the type of people who are meant to be alone?