INTP's how did you meet your current mate? and how do you feel about it?

**ChubbyFan303** · 12-02-2010 08:50 PM

im really looking for some inspiration here because for some reason whenever i do fall in love it invelopes then destroys my world but gives it meaning at the same time and takes it way. but the title says it all lets hear the stories

**Obsidean** · 12-02-2010 09:33 PM

At Uni and it feels pretty good...

**LQ9** · 12-03-2010 12:37 AM

Our first conversation was a Facebook message about Doctor Who

**eruceht** · 12-03-2010 06:23 AM

A dating service which was before internet dating. I found it impossible to meet anyone because of my inability to strike up a conversation with a stranger and there was no single females in my small social network. It made me feel good that someone was interested in me. I alway found it hard to connect with most women (not just women) and I guess that went both ways.

**chilidog** · 12-03-2010 11:47 AM

I met my wife through her cousin, who was my next-door neighbor. Me and her cousin used to hang out and smoke weed all the time, and she had a house-party one night, and that's where I met my girl. The rest is history.

**LostInMyOwnMind** · 12-03-2010 12:12 PM

We met at work but we have both since moved on from that job. Feel? Seriously, you're asking INTP's how they feel?

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**Buckersniff** · 12-03-2010 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by chilidog

The rest is history.

That saying irks me... so very very much. And i don't know why.

I've never had a mate, but I have, an almost childlike, fantasy of meeting someone who I can click with and be comfortable around.
This has actually happened 2 or 3 times recently, but always with guys. Maybe it's just nature's way of telling me I need to switch teams... -_-

**splash** · 12-03-2010 12:45 PM

I met my husband via an online dating/friendship service. Being in a relationship feels good most of the time, but I sometimes struggle with the routine that creeps after living together with someone for a long time and with lack of alone time.

**EmotionallyTonedGeometry** · 12-03-2010 10:00 PM

I met my wife in the Army. We were in the woods on an FTX at some pointless meeting at the end of the day. It was pitch black and the stars were amazing. There is very little light pollution on military bases, which is nice. As I was staring up at the stars, i heard a voice say, "oh look, a shooting star." I then correcter her, telling her that it was a satellite. Kinda funny for our first topic of conversation to be something off the planet! Long story short, we were friends for 7 years before I proposed. What attracted me to her was her rock solid emotional stability (ISFJ). Most INTPs feel like their emotions are much like a kite in a hurricane, but when my wife is around, I feel grounded in a way I never thought possible.