[minavanhelsing]

What I hate the most, is when the shoe is on the other foot and said Feelers are deliberately deriding someone. I try to defend them, or at least tone down the "conversation" a bit, I am "not on their side".

Yes! I definitely know what you're saying here, too. I have this pathological need to stick up for people or ideas who aren't present to defend themselves even if I didn't really care for them in the first place. I don't know why I do that!

However, the difference between what I was complaining about and what you an I do when we objectively present the other side of an argument is that we're not getting all...accusing about it. >.<

I guess some people just do not know that you can remind people to consider the other side without getting all emotionally invested--so they get emotionally invested and they assume we're getting emotionally invested and...ugh. Haha.

[minavanhelsing]

I'm home for the holidays, I've been here half a day, and...I self-injured again. And that pisses me the f*ck off. Now, I don't feel it's my place to complain, because I've never done anything really significant or major to myself...but I have the mindset discussed by a lot of people who do have more serious problems, and it feels like an addiction in some ways and that scares me and just makes me so frustrated.

Today, I read someone's comment that you'd never know the sort of psychological pain someone would have to be in to hurt themselves unless you, well, knew it. I know it, and it makes me feel weak, and I'm just so pissed off at my weakness. But I'm also kind of confused. I don't seriously hurt myself, and I'm really lucky because of that, so does that mean I don't really have an issue--or is my mental state an issue in and of itself, or...?

I'm a very independent person; I know how to look after myself, and I'm also a very academically successful person. So I feel like maybe I'm lying if I say I'm falling apart and I need help because I know I can do it, I know I'll keep going whatever happens, so what kind of "help" would I get, and aren't I just trivializing the problems of people who really do need it? And for some reason, I feel kind of ashamed posting this.

This would probably go better in the Confessions thread, but this weakness and frustration in myself...really pisses me off.

[Mountain Climber]

Those who are judgemental. But, oh well. Who cares. To each his own. I guess at some point, the One above ran out of brain matter. Maybe there was only so much to go around. Yeah, being judgemental is human. One cannot fault a man for being human...

Not much pisses me off, maybe because I enjoy problem solving. Lets just say, if I were a guy, it would give me a b***r. Not very classy of me, eh? ;)

I guess there isn't really much that pisses me off. I am troubled by abuse and hurt when being judged. Other than that, I don't notice much and when I do, I don't care much.

[Diophantine]

I hate small talk; but I think it is an INTP trait that I hate it subconsciously. I never actually contemplate the things I dislike; I tend not to dwell on the negative things. Rather, whenever I do encounter something that annoys me, I just withdraw to my own little world. Whatever annoys me does not really affect me. I guess this is very INTP-ish.

[koalaroo]

Most "stupid funny" movies or comedy routines.
Most generic humor.
Ignorant people who told me I was too "immature" for college when I was undergoing a major psychiatric break. Thank you for your support ...
Jingoistic rhetoric.
People who fall for jingoistic rhetoric.
Being called a "misanthrope."
Bad literature.
People who over-share on Facebook.
People who think the only important thing in life is their own kids.
Black Friday shopping ...

[Ancient]

I never actually contemplate the things I dislike; I tend not to dwell on the negative things. Rather, whenever I do encounter something that annoys me, I just withdraw to my own little world. Whatever annoys me does not really affect me. I guess this is very INTP-ish.

Yeah, that's me as well. Makes people mad when they discover I'm not paying attention to their rant :D

[koalaroo]

Dunno if this is un-INTP-ish, but whenever something really does bug me - I write about it, analyze an issue and then I'm done with it. Unless it's a recurring nuisance!

[Ancient]

Dunno if this is un-INTP-ish, but whenever something really does bug me - I write about it, analyze an issue and then I'm done with it. Unless it's a recurring nuisance!

Nope, that's me too xD

[grandpa2390]

People who ask dumb questions while I am trying to concentrate on my task.

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People who ask dumb questions while I am trying to concentrate on my task.

Even if I'm not trying to concentrate....