I am currently dating an ISTJ and I find it really hard to connect with him because he does not share his feelings as much.
He is a really nice guy and everything, plus he makes me happy. But I would like it if there was some way that I can interpret how he feels about me specifically.
The little things that he says lets me know that I am good enough, but the silence we both have can be awkward because sometimes I feel I might not be good enough anways.
Sometimes I tend to rant and say too much. He listens more than I do, and I feel bad about those times that I don't when I am with him.
-My boyfriend is more social than I am when it comes to family. He is also in football and is associated with people. Technically has more friends than I do.
I think that me going out with him has helped me more with socializing, in a way, because he has a big family, and they're all nice people.
I know that we wouldn't be seeing each other if he didn't like me in the first place.
What are your overall thoughts of and ISTJ and an INTP relationship?
I am open up for anything really, and possibly some advice from some ISTJs.