As for mine, I can't exactly cut him off. Technically we're reconciled, and it'd be a long and frustrating process to explain to my friends why, after so long venting to them about how he wouldn't talk to me, that I'm ignoring him two days after he finally responded. I don't think they'd understand that, while he talked to be, we still haven't really communicated, and that what we've hit now is worse than being ignored. On top of that, I'd like to keep an eye on how his life is going because currently he is stationed in Kuwait in the army, and it's worrying not to know how that is going (though I only found out about it a month after he'd traveled there). Right now, we're still friends in a way. I really do hope he'll come to really talk to me one day, because I never successfully cut someone off in my life once they've gotten close enough because he'll still have that trust I gave him, likely until the day I die. To him, it seems, we are now just Facebook friends. I'd try to probe the issue more, to see exactly how he feels about this, but the combination of this new emotional distance likely means that, if he responded to a message at all, he'd simply tell me that everything is fine and leave it at that. Pretty sure I'm in the getting over things stage, though I'll see how that goes.