Well I broke with my girlfriend a couple of months ago, and I still can't seem to get over it and I'm stuck in a rut. My ex was an infj, and me and her were together for a about two weeks. I met her my first month at college and we've messed around for about a year, even when she had different boyfriends. When we started dating it was like heaven, and when we split we didn't even see each other and I took it really hard, my anger coming out and saying some pretty mean stuff to her, but now I miss her and just miss being her friend. Since we split I've have yet to go out once and my best friend has been asking me almost every weekend to go out with him, but i just can't. I can't even go talk to other girls. They come on to me but I just can't do it. When we were dating she would always talk about her ex, and this really annoyed me and then after about a month from when we split she was back with him she isn't anymore. We haven't talked since we split, and yet she is constanly on my mind. I thinking of transferring to get away from the place and all the memories, but then I think well what if it worked out?. I need to some help to get back to happy go lucky self that I used to be before I met her and I don't know how, with her on my mind all the time. My need to play soccer has gone up almost every day and my game is has gone down hill ever since we split. What do i do? Should I really try to get her back? or How do I get over this girl and move on?