[Fernando]

Lets reorder the things. I am a INFJ male;) and i have a female friend that is INTP.What do you girls think about me dating her? we do have the empathy, but sometimes she just disappears, to appear again even more connected to me.

[NeedsNewNameNow]

Lets reorder the things. I am a INFJ male;) and i have a female friend that is INTP.What do you girls think about me dating her? we do have the empathy, but sometimes she just disappears, to appear again even more connected to me.

INTP + INFJ is supposed to be an ideal match. At least for male INTP and femail INFJ. I think it works the other way too. Disappearing is to be expected :)

But if nothing else M INFJ + F INTP relationship must be extremely rare!

[Socrates]

Last summer I was kind of involved with an INFJ. I got fucked over by being not so observant of the fact that she had a boyfriend and declined to tell me (), but I think it would have worked out great. I don't know how this translates for a male INFJ and a female INTP (you lucky INFJ bastard), but it seems like it should work out... from personal experience.

[Fernando]

yes, it is what i am asking> I want to hear about it. Have ever someone lived this? EHUEAHUEAHEAUEHAU. Infj males are so rare. so rare. AHUEAHUEAHEAU :)

[rappf]

Wow. Wow—that's a rare relationship, if I've ever seen one. Yeah. God, the dynamics of such a relationship must be so unique.

My best friend since childhood is an INFJ. It's interesting—she has the same principles as me and the same love for abstraction, yet she thinks in an entirely different way.

Here's a page about the INTP/INFJ relationship that made me chuckle a little, because it describes our friendship so aptly: INTP/INFJ "GRAND MISCOMMUNICATION" THEORY

And just a last note: if she's being distant, probably 90% of the time it's not personal. It's more than likely that the distance is not a message about your performance or conduct (INTPs don't like to expend energy on grudges), but rather... "social battery"-recharging without prior notice, perhaps? (Idk... I find my social energy like an irregular cellphone; it doesn't even give a low battery warning—it just dies. It's hard to uphold tact that way, if at all.)