[Blue Screen of Feels]

Why have you been attracted to the less attractive ones then?
Was there an emotional attraction of some sort?
Did you not put the more attractive ones on a pedestal?
Did you judge them by your personal scala of attractiveness or by how they're seen by society?

Physical attraction is definitely important, but I tend to put more weight into the emotional intimacy once I am over the physical attraction barrier.



Definitely.

I did, I have. I tend to put everyone I like on a pedestal. I don't like it, but I have. It makes me feel less "in their league" and I realized how shit that makes me feel and so I have stopped doing that, or I try at least.

Both. Sometimes when someone who is very attractive to the society in general, likes me, I feel uncomfortable. I don't know why.

[misstheground]

I don't really feel weird liking people more attractive than me.
Maybe it's because I know that I have a decent level of attractiveness, and I compensate when I need to by turning the charm on anyway.
I see attractive, even physically attractive, as an amalgamation of a bunch of traits which are not just based on how somebody looks, though. So all of my crushes are somewhat attractive in some sort of way, and usually people who are conventionally "hot" just don't do it for me.
I usually get a self esteem boost if I end up with a guy who is more attractive than me, actually.
There's a certain amount of insecurity, yeah, but I only feel a little inferior.

(I don't know if this post made sense. Woo, sleep deprivation.)

[Echoe]

I haven't had a crush on someone I saw as being better looking than me, but when I've felt attracted to guys who I thought were too good-looking for me I've wished I was more attractive.

[KneeSeekerArrow]

I wished my Crush would be a little less sweet so that when I drink it my teeth would not decay as quickly. Also I'm confused as to what you guys are talking about.

Also it's been a while since I've had my last crush, since most fast food places don't seem to offer it anymore...

[saturnne]

Not at all, I can totally relate. I'm still not sure if I'm over mine.

[Muser]

Have you ever wished your crush was less attractive?

No. Whether a guy is attractive or not, he'll have standards. Contrary to what you said (well, not really), I wish I was more attractive to stand a chance.

[Tezkatlipoca]

Yep, either that or wish they lived in the same state as me.

[Ista]

Hell yus. Crushes are usually not very useful, except as a distraction. There are times where distraction is not useful.

[Kevinaswell]

I don't play courtship games because I don't think of myself as an animal in the bush.

That being said, I've dated some sexy people and all it's ever done for me was give me cause to roll my eyes at their sense of entitlement.

[Ramysa]

U should stop thinking that u cannot get a gorgeous girl. U might never know...But is it really looks all that matters? U could be with a pretty woman with a great personality that makes u happy or u could be with a gorgeous woman and make all men envious but be very unhappy coz she's stupid or cheating or just not good for you.