[Vexed]

Like activities? Are they run of the mill, eccentric, or as simple as talking/eating?



Does it usually involve a close friend, family member or SO?

[shadowofambivalence]

My best friend and I like to watch anime and movies when she comes over to my apartment and we also like getting drunk and having pizza for lunch/dinner, we also tell each other really twisted jokes.

[krviking]

The activities usually include me sitting at a computer and my ESFP friend watching me.

[Near]

Hmm...I don't do hangouts, in fact, I think most INTJs don't....not that it's a surprise.

[Vexed]

Hmm...I don't do hangouts, in fact, I think most INTJs don't....not that it's a surprise.

So what do you do with friends? Is it limited to family, that you get human interactions?

[Luciano]

usually a coffee or a beer and a good long deep chat about pretty much everything.

[Near]

So what do you do with friends? Is it limited to family, that you get human interactions?

Well, you'll think this is sad, but university is the only outside human interaction I have.
Other than that, it's my family, and I'm still stuck in my room, either studying, or doing this.

But I'm not deprived from meaningful exchanges of thoughts, I do that with my family.

[Darin Hamel]

One friend I run with and the other I powerlift with. My sister and I do Tai Chi, Judo and Iaido together.

[Konigsberg]

With my ENFP friend we watch series, youtube videos at his place or the cinema and go for a coffee to have long meaningful but extremely funny talks. With INTP we tease each other, say some clever things while we have fun or turn deadly serious on a subject, the talk always ends up good either way. And with my ENTx friend, we just started trusting each other a little bit more, watching movies and talking about every single topic that comes to mind, he has the widest range of knowledge of them all. Then there's the other me, INTJ (best?) friend. He has the deepest knowledge of them all. We have the most meaningful conversations and darkest humor, downright hilarious. Like two little devils making fun of the world, including ourselves. Once we're at ease with each other (in real life, because we chat mostly) we're so, so close. It's amazing. It's also a healthy-or-maybe-not-so-much friendship, with a bit of competition. He thinks I'm better than him, I think he surpasses me in some things. That has made us grow together, and to increase our maturity greatly.

Now, with my family. I enjoy them very much, they're used now to my humor and they laugh at it. I usually dinner with them every time we can and I have no problem telling my friends "No, I can't go out, I'd rather go with my family". It's nice, when it's just us (5 in total, including me), but when the uncles and aunts and nieces arrive... I just leave.

With regular people like "friends", companions or classmates I'm polite and usually (98% of time) decline their offers to go out. I just have no interest whatsoever in dealing with them besides what's necessary in school. I respect them and expect nothing from them. I don't really enjoy parties and that's pretty much all they do so... no going out with them by choice.

I like to be at home, and time alone is needed, but not 100% of the time.

[AmberJorr]

With my ISTJ best friend we usually play video games, watch youtube videos, cook and talk. With my ENTJ best friend, and my INTJ and ENTP friends I usually just have deep meaningful conversation with them for hours on end.

My ENTJ SO and I usually spend all of our time together having the most amazing converations. Our longest conversation to date lasted 16 hours. Best birthday present ever.