Yup, me too!I agree with most if not all of what my fellow INTJs have added. But I also need to say that I am a gooey mess around my friends and family. I allow them to see the full depth of what I feel as I feel it because they make me feel safe. It's why we have a few close friends and not tons of acquaintances. You know you are in my inner circle if you know how I feel at any given moment.