Thank you @Rozy96 ... You are such a beautiful soul!
I believe that all 16 personality types possess great qualities and strenghts that make them unique- it takes very special person thought- too focus on and see the best ones, instead of seeing the flaws of someone's character. I think that it takes time to see INTJ qualities, they are not as flashy as qualities of Extroverted types for example.
Your INTJ husband is a very lucky INTJ! ( Just like @RansomthePasserby ' wife... I'm always positively astonished when I'm reading his posts)