So, I went on a date with an INTJ and it went great.
We went to dinner, went to a concert, had a drink and the night went well.
We talked, felt a connection so deep I can't describe it.
Didn't kiss, nothing more than holding hands and I kissed her cheek/forehead.
We left on a great note and she even held my hand as we departed company.
But as a couple days passed, I texted her a couple times saying things most women like to hear.
Such as "I can't wait to see you again" and "You texting me perked me up" after she texted me out of the blue.
Apparently I'm too emotionally needy?
Idk, as an INFJ I understand I can be emotional compared to a thinker, but I'm confused.
Also, there was an incident involving her most recent ex that I had been witness to, while they were dating.
It turned into a "He said, he said/she said/they lied" situation.
I told the truth and they lied to cover their own a$$es and in doing so made me look like a d-bag liar.
Needless to say I don't talk to those people any more. Doorslam and all that jazz.
Anyway, she won't talk to me any more and I look like a total a-hole, emotional wreck.
Mind you this connection we had has touched me so deeply that the loss of it has got me completely discombobulated and just effed up in general.
Anything I can do?
I'm dying here...