I'm very particular about who I hug. I'm actually very awkward when it comes to physical contact - especially with strangers. I'm only ever really able to hug and cuddle spontaneously with those who I am very close with- such as an SO
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I'm very particular about who I hug. I'm actually very awkward when it comes to physical contact - especially with strangers. I'm only ever really able to hug and cuddle spontaneously with those who I am very close with- such as an SO
I'm not big on hugs. I love physical contact but hugs rank low on the list. I think ENFPs delight in playing up the Huggy schtick when interacting with y'all because it's one of the few ways we feel able to scare the Scary INTJs. We cackle with glee as we send you running with your tails between your legs at the threat of a Hugfest.
Actually i do love getting a hug from a female ENFP because i like the odd amount of care and emotion but in small dosses. But if a guy does it im gonna be pissed/awkward and ill send them running for the hills.
This post is getting weird......
Actually, my INTJ friend spontaneously hugged ME yesterday!
YEAH.
TAKE THAT BITCHEZ.
Nah, seriously though. I have an ENFP friend and he's like hugs all over the place. I on the other hand, enjoy hugging only people close to me - and really good huggers, like my ENFP friend![]()
I feel awkward hugging people other than those closest to me, and only when it's genuine, not a ritual. My in laws do the ritual hug and kiss goodbye thing, and I hate it. I DREAD it to the point of getting a teensy bit anxious right before we are about to leave. I try to avoid it at all costs.

Hugs can be a fun way to catch people off guard.
This is how they affirm they are "connecting" with people. I just let them hug me. No harm done.
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