Not even boredom is bored of me! ;P
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Socially, INTJs can be boring (the ones I know at least). I recently conversed with one and our convo went something like, "Hey" "Hey" "Sup?" "nm u?" "yeah, same" "cool" "I guess". Lmao.
But others are extremely complex ad awesome. So it depends on the person, really.
No. I can never get bored of them. ;)
It has been brought to my attention that despite my effort at sarcasm and humour in the least number of characters possible, somehow I am not allowed this outlet. I understand and comply with this, I respect and adore this rule, it is, I am sure, a small part of what makes this forum entertaining. Rather than what I now see my attempt at humour to be, actually dull. This I do accept. But ... It annoys me and pisses me off, like a flea in your bloomers, a stone in the shoe, a tractor on your neck. I would suggest the ten character rule was abandoned, however I am aware of the impact, the desolation that would follow. The weeping and moaning of deathly still threads with nothing more than a scant representation of interaction in the form of beleaguered smilies stuck in uninformative grimaces, leering out at me, you the reader (why are you still reading this, even I am bored, I admitted to it waay up there! Didn't I? It's been so long ago now.) and anyone unfortunate enough to breeze past this website. It would be awful. So I understand and yet again I submit. But wow!
Sometimes it gets on my fucking tits!
In real life, I find INTJs pretty interesting actually.
In this forum however the topics can get a bit sensational and boringly repetitive.
Surely, having everything identical is like talking to a mirror but MBTI is only for general understanding of thinking processes. One may share the same MBTI type but have different motivations or act differently because of different experience or interests. This brings diversity and make life interesting.
I know personally 3 INTJs other than me. My mom is INTJ with enneagram type 8. Same as me but she's a way more into idealism and fighting for what is right, a kind of "may your heart be smart and your mind be kind", with a lot of experience and PhD in psychology. I find it interesting. My friend from Hungary is an INTJ type 9 (maybe), a phlegmatic with gloomy jokes and dark image, who has extreme peace of mind, classically arranged house and very 'feminine' interests. My boss is an Arabian version of INTJ, Allah knows, which enneagram type ;) but we share business and musical interests. Every day tries to merge INTJ's sarcasm and Arabian politeness, INTJ's planning and Arabian "just do it. tomorrow" attitude. That's funny.
Why should I be bored?
I don't find INTJs boring because the ones I personally know and have known appreciate a healthy balance of space as much as I do. Basically, this means we don't bore each other out because we don't drag out our interactions. They're always self-sufficient and independent and I am pretty much, too, so when we meet, we enjoy our time together, and then we're off doing our own thing.
I wish i had an intj to talk to. The closest i have is a INTP and he is not at all open minded to alternatives.
I have a ENFP friend who i had religious debates with. Very entertaining. Until we had to stop as my logic was fucking with his beliefs pretty badly. I almost turned him against Christianity and i don't want to do that to someone.
Don't know one, not yet. I presume it'll be a battle of wills, but if we're like-minded, it'd be good, I guess.
Though if I was around someone like myself, I'd get pretty bored.
This forum is dull most of the time. I like the NF forum too! Those guys are very relatable and fun.
HAHAHAHA...everything except #3. My husband is an INTJ and his best friend we believe to be either INTJ or INTP is dreadfully boring but a very nice guy...BUUUTTTT....I get bored with ANYONE if I am around them too long. Generally I find my husband pretty interesting, they may come across as boring because of the whole "not needing to talk unless they have something important to say". But I would rather be around someone who says very little but intelligent things than someone who utters every thought that passes through thru their mind.