Are ENFPs really your perfect match?

**MusicBird** · 10-06-2011 10:37 PM

I'm somewhat new to the MBTI, and I'm still trying to figure out all the other types! It says that INTJs and ENFPs are the perfect match! Do you think it's true? I don't think/know if I've met one yet so I wouldn't know ;) Also, what are some down sides to this relationship?

**ForsakenMe** · 10-06-2011 10:43 PM

ENFPs are like puppies; they bring joy and happiness to those it touches. INTJs are attracted to ENFPs because ENFPs brings the kid out of them.

I think this video best represent the relationship between an INTJ and ENFP.

**L'Empereur** · 10-06-2011 10:43 PM

Yes, INTJs can only experience love with ENFPs. There are no down sides.

**antiant** · 10-06-2011 11:07 PM

Search Function & The INTJ's Field Guide (1/2).

**sherkanner** · 10-07-2011 12:08 AM

INTJ: Ni/Te/Fi/Se
ENFP: Ne/Fi/Te/Si

Common intuition
Te/Fi and Fi/Te can be in symbiosis, balancing each other emotion and intellect.
It's all about balance.
Now, sit on this end of yours, I will jump on my side, and hopefully, you will fly back to the ENFP section while drawing a rainbow.

**Paradox of Vigor** · 10-07-2011 12:13 AM

Originally Posted by L'Empereur

Yes, INTJs can only experience love with ENFPs. There are no down sides.

Hahaha, I want to agree with that but I can't. Instead I believe that they are most often the best match for INTJs.

There are a billion other threads on this though, I would seriously try the search function, because there is a lot of information on this very topic.

**MissJordan** · 10-07-2011 12:16 AM

In my opinion?
I prefer INFPs in a romantic sense.

ENFPs tend to avoid serious discussion and in most cases be unable to understand any discussion I try to have with them. They also tend to annoy me and not be too hard to 'figure out'.

But, that's just me.
It's all about personal taste.

**shadowofambivalence** · 10-07-2011 12:42 AM

Im used to be into ENFPs but the ones i met in real life were shallow jerks or just mentally unstable and the last one i was with was a child molester that would have sex with just about anything (even his own dog). I still think ENFPs have admirable traits becasue i have also known some in real life who were mentally competent but not very many and they were 20 years older than me and were married married and im not dating married men.

**antiant** · 10-07-2011 06:13 AM

The general 'rule' around here: The male INTJs are more into the ENFPs, than the female INTJs.

**Persephone** · 10-07-2011 06:21 AM

I actually prefer INFPs as well. I'm friends with an ENFP right now and while I can see myself with him and he does have a certain depth to him, he's perfectly content staying in the "small talk and joking around" arena. I always have to make the initiative to... level up the conversation. He's got this air about him that's not very serious.