My husbands mother just passed away yesterday morning. I know he is really hurt, he's been taking it very well. He has shed some tears but mostly he has been acting his same normal self besides for the ora around him of sadness that I can see because I know him so well. I am worried about him holding all this in and not talking about it. We've talked about it but not in a 'I 'm sad, I miss her' way...I'm wondering, how does an INTJ deal with death of a loved one & what should I do to make him feel at his most comfortable?