[MissJordan]

Here, feel encouraged to ask as many questions on relationships or love or sex or dating with INTJs as you see fit, And we'll get around to answering as many as our 'cold, little robot hearts' can manage.


Remember, though, we're just here to give advice, it's up to you to take action.

[antiant]

1. Sex and Relationships
2. Advice Center

[SteffSweetlySour]

1. Sex and Relationships
2. Advice Center

Yes, we know those are there... But the point of this is to hopefully cut down the number of new threads created by persons coming to the INTJ forum and not appropriately searching the threads they need before creating new ones. For further clarification please see Should We Make...

[Napoleptic]

Here, feel encouraged to ask as many questions on relationships or love or sex or dating with INTJs as you see fit, And we'll get around to answering as many as our 'cold, little robot hearts' can manage.


Remember, though, we're just here to give advice, it's up to you to take action.

Shouldn't the title say "Questions"?

[MissJordan]

Shouldn't the title say "Questions"?

It's not my fault that iPads are terrible to type with.

[SteffSweetlySour]

A relationship question...
Do the personality types of your parental figures have any affect on whether or not you will pursue a relationship with persons of those types, regardless of how compatible, or not MBTI may say you are?

[brightlywound]

Would you adapt your love language to someone who was more used to verbal affection than loving through doing, or would that sort of behavioral modification feel forced and unnatural?

[bethdeth]

Would you adapt your love language to someone who was more used to verbal affection than loving through doing, or would that sort of adaptation feel forced and unnatural?

There is only a certain amount of becoming an orange an apple can do before it's no longer a viable option. We are what we are no matter how we try to be what we aren't. Where's Yoda when you need him?

[Dralud]

I will answer the questions that have been asked...
@SteffSweetlySour
No, it wouldnt.
@brightlywound
It would feel unatural, I have tried it before... it just gets irritating.
@bethdeth
"A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away..."

[FlaylexFayte]

Would you adapt your love language to someone who was more used to verbal affection than loving through doing, or would that sort of behavioral modification feel forced and unnatural?

It depends on how much and how often it would be expected of me. If I really cared for someone then I don't think the occasional verbalization would hurt but if I had to be forced to do it frequently for the rest of my life then that's just ridiculous. It would begin to feel like a chore and the very act in and of itself would make me begin to DISLIKE the person just for the reason that it takes so much work to be with them.