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This is a discussion on Relationship Questions For INTJs. within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Ed S I don't know that it would be any different. I just have an attraction that ...
I'm sure there is something to what your saying. I'm not ready for anything really 10 years will take a while to heal from. I heal quickly and move on quickly, however it will still take some time. I am excited by the idea of new possibilities and afraid of making the same mistakes.
I love to be touched and enjoy touching others, however sometimes I feel a little awkward when I'm not sure what the situation calls for. Also, I want a hug or touch to have meaning not just some act thats performed for just anyone. It is something I want to reserve for those I'm really close to. I feel awkward when I see someone I'm very close to and we hug then there is someone with them I don't know as well then I go all weirdo and feel strange. Man I can be so strange...
This was in response to INTJs and touching. I find this topic interesting because I do struggle with touching in certain situations mainly when it's not a clearly defined social situation.
I'm thinking the change you want is not merely a change of type but a change of situation. Make it so, forget about type and pick it up once you find someone who floats your boat with the things that matter.
Hi,I'm an ENFJ and I'm new to personality cafe I have a difficult relationship with a INTJ and I can never tell if he likes me or not...This has been going on for almost 2 years. From the research I've found...
These are the signals that he is interested: I catch him looking at me but he quickly looks away,he gets jealous when I talk about other guys,he teases me and we joke around a lot,we text almost everyday,he ignores me at school but we have the same friends and they tell me he sometimes mentions me.
These are the signals that he wouldn't like me...He ignores me,hes told me before he does not like me,he avoids me. This is just so confusing for me do you think he's interested or not?
You will get on each other's nerves because you do not have a common communication style. As evidenced by the banter between the both of you, and many other ENFJ/INTJ couples.
But what do cognitive styles matter? It's not science, right?