Straight up ask him. If you don't want to give up, don't. It's a little difficult to say if he likes you, but I mean, he does keep coming back and he spends time with you, which is meaningful.Hello INTJs, I need help on dating advice.
I've known this guy since April 2012. He is an INTJ and I'm an ENFP.
At first, he would text me every morning and we would go out for dinner/movie every weekend. He kept me updated about his daily life. After about two months, he started to get busy with his work. He still sent me text messages once a while. But then he stopped contact me for about a month.
During the time we seeing each other, I'd say we always had fun. He remembered everything I told him about myself, even tiny little details. He was attentive and dependable. We have many shared interests. That's why I like him a lot.
Two weeks ago, I decided to contact him to see if there is still chance for us. He replied, like there was nothing happened (I mean we didn't talk to each other for a month), Well, he did apologized about not contacting me because he was busy working. And he asked me out. We had a good time hanging out together. Before he left, he said "We should meet again next weekend.Just shoot me a text. " But he didn't reply my messages for a week.
I just got a text message from him today. We chatted for a bit.
Actually, I don't even know if we're dating. Because:
-We didn't talk about relationship or any emotional topics. He did tell me many childhood stories of his.
-We didn't have any physical contact. Every time he accidentally touched me, he would apologize. (He is not religious at all.)
Does he like me? Should I just give up? Honestly I don't want to, because I like him very much.