The Fi Thread. (Expose your gooey insides here)

**Isis** · 03-23-2012 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by listentothemountains

I don't know what to do, whether to stay or to go, whether it is worth it.

I really want this friendship. But I may have done irreparable damage. I can find solutions to my own problems, but I can't fix others.

I wish I didn't care, but I do care. A lot. And that is why I still want to be friends in spite of everything. You can't tell that I care, unless you were watching very closely just how gently I laughed at you, or how I give you the benefit of the doubt in just about everything.

I have no idea how I stand in his mind is the thing. If I did, it would probably be a lot easier. But I'm not going to play guessing-games on that subject because I always take a negative aspect on how other people see me. So, in the meantime, I wait, and feel my way slowly through this confusion.

I just hope I'm not being stupid and getting burnt a second time.

friendship is often all about burns... or you can cultivate some INFPs as friends...they're pretty cuddly

**lolthevoidlol** · 03-23-2012 08:37 PM

**tooboku** · 03-29-2012 09:12 PM

This post. I thought my IU obsession was starting to calm down. I'm going to be single forever. Sure, I don't mind being single but there are other aspirations in life that are harder to achieve in solitude. I thought I was picky before but now no one will ever be that cute, sing like that, or have those legs. The lyrics of that song don't really help my cause either. They're just extra motivation to hold out for that one thing I've been waiting for. I think I really set myself up for a downer with this. I'm starting to think if I should actually be serious about my plan or if I should just start dating ANYONE just to see if it goes away. My money is on the second option... maybe I could throw my ridiculously high standards out the window for a few months, actually put effort into meeting new people, and see how it goes.

EDIT: cut out rambling

**sanari** · 03-30-2012 06:43 AM

Originally Posted by tooboku

This post. I thought my IU obsession was starting to calm down. I'm going to be single forever. Sure, I don't mind being single but there are other aspirations in life that are harder to achieve in solitude. I thought I was picky before but now no one will ever be that cute, sing like that, or have those legs. The lyrics of that song don't really help my cause either. They're just extra motivation to hold out for that one thing I've been waiting for. I think I really set myself up for a downer with this. I'm starting to think if I should actually be serious about my plan or if I should just start dating ANYONE just to see if it goes away. My money is on the second option... maybe I could throw my ridiculously high standards out the window for a few months, actually put effort into meeting new people, and see how it goes.

EDIT: cut out rambling

You may have your IU obsession, but mine is Cha Seung Won. [check avatar]

Deep voice, manly carriage, confidence, imperiousness, gentleness, family man, monogamous...ok, I'll stop.

**Isis** · 03-30-2012 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by tooboku

This post. I thought my IU obsession was starting to calm down. I'm going to be single forever. Sure, I don't mind being single but there are other aspirations in life that are harder to achieve in solitude. I thought I was picky before but now no one will ever be that cute, sing like that, or have those legs. The lyrics of that song don't really help my cause either. They're just extra motivation to hold out for that one thing I've been waiting for. I think I really set myself up for a downer with this. I'm starting to think if I should actually be serious about my plan or if I should just start dating ANYONE just to see if it goes away. My money is on the second option... maybe I could throw my ridiculously high standards out the window for a few months, actually put effort into meeting new people, and see how it goes.

EDIT: cut out rambling

you could try a HOward Walowitz and go for someone real who likes you...

**Inguz** · 03-30-2012 02:39 PM

Originally Posted by tooboku

This post. I thought my IU obsession was starting to calm down. I'm going to be single forever. Sure, I don't mind being single but there are other aspirations in life that are harder to achieve in solitude. I thought I was picky before but now no one will ever be that cute, sing like that, or have those legs. The lyrics of that song don't really help my cause either. They're just extra motivation to hold out for that one thing I've been waiting for. I think I really set myself up for a downer with this. I'm starting to think if I should actually be serious about my plan or if I should just start dating ANYONE just to see if it goes away. My money is on the second option... maybe I could throw my ridiculously high standards out the window for a few months, actually put effort into meeting new people, and see how it goes.

EDIT: cut out rambling

From a Fi-dom, let the feeling move you. If you try to shun it you're Ni will make sure to end you up with an obsession instead. Fi has a rather limited 'attention span', while Ni is the direct opposite. Just be in the moment and enjoy the feeling of love for a while. It's actually not dangerous, and you won't develop a psychosis from it. :-)

**Hett** · 03-30-2012 03:10 PM

Ok, about my ex. She can come talk to me whenever she wishes. I can take having each other in social media, and that's it.

**Lunarprox** · 03-30-2012 03:16 PM

GuuUUuooOoooey, that's why it gets so messy.

I have serious issues with expressing my emotions around people -- not only that I prefer to conceal 'em, I'm actually disgusted by them, but rather.. It might be a childhood complex (?), I didn't get much privacy because I had people always forcing me to "let it out", it's ironic (almost miserable) because I only wanted to be left alone. Should this really be an issue? Whenever I get emotional it feels like all the negative feelings I've had in my entire life just burst out uncontrollably -- VeeEeErY GooEy.