This is a discussion on The Fi Thread. (Expose your gooey insides here) within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by bethdeth I got nothing. I guess if you want to know my gooey interior you'll have to ...
I actually am having a bit of a Fi crisis at the moment. I've realised that I like someone actually did something about it and now I'm regretting it. I still like him and my feelings haven't changed in that area but I'm a little petrified that this will be just another pathetic relationshit in a long list of mistakes from choosing the wrong person. I don't even know who the right person is to be honest. FAIL
Yea just lonely some time. Before I knew I was an INTJ, I thought there was something wrong with me because people come and go and I never care. Also all my friends are either married, with someone or they already procreate. I feel a bit left out but I couldn't connect to anyone because they're all so ordinary and boring. I just like to have a best friend who I can share things with I guess and show them a world of my imagination.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
No one knows who the "right" person is. Some just delude themselves into thinking they do. More important is being comfortable with what you decide to do. Either forget them (which can be difficult) or pursue them (also difficult).
In any case, good luck in whatever you choose.
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