Okee. I think I have my answer. I know how you INTJs hate to repeat yourselves ^_^ My initial impression was correct.
1. Disregarding your opinion without a valid argument is a pet peeve.
A. If your interest in me and my own opinion is minimal, rejecting yours out of hand is a sure way to get brushed off and otherwise put into the big mental box marked "IGNORE"
B. If my opinion does matter, because somehow I've managed to wriggle my way into the inner sanctum of your close friends, this phrase should get a confused, somewhat indignant response. Obviously, if I'm a close friend, I have value to you...yet defiance is unacceptable.
Is this accurate?