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This is a discussion on MEN Intj's and attractive WOMEN within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by ComtriS If I had any idea where to meet intelligent/attractive ENFPs I would probably not be posting ...
I have a problem with this indication I get from your posts on how you suggest being something else than who you are, mainly more "smooth" at the pretty girls you meet to impress them. Favoritism based on looks is not attractive. If you are a douche bag to someone and then turn around and act all kind and loving to a girl you are trying to woo, eventually she'll notice your facade as you grow less eager to please her and then your true colors will disappoint her, hurt her and in a sense betray her.
I am polite to everyone until I meet behavior I find inappropriate, which I will confront mercilessly. Was it them coming from an attractive mega-babe or wrinkly old balding fat man. I may not enjoy the common and their idiocy but I treat all equally and according to their merits rather then their appearance. This is why the friends I have trust in me, they know they what see is what they get.
Honesty is honesty only when it is uniform in all aspects. It is not exclusive reward or a tool of bribery, that can not last over the years, and that is the problem with most people these days, they think it's OK to be dishonest sometimes.
WTB: Trophy Wife ENTP/ENFP.
Where do i line up?