I'm interested in hearing about common problems or limitations that
we INTJ's have and how you go about dealing with or even solving them.
I post this in hope of this thread being a repository of solutions to
common problems our type face so that we of our type can better our life's.
If you have alternative solutions to situations posted feel free to share them!
That goes for all types. Especially types that have our problem areas handled!
Let me start.
When I get into situations with females I like, that make me feel some sort of
romantic feeling, I leave.
I really would like to stay,but I just leave or at least creates
as much physical space between me and her as possible in the situation.
I'm trying to solve this by making myself endure such feelings longer or
not pull away as far as I used to, but it is kind of a knee-jerk response.
So in this example the way I deal with my emotions is to pull away and
my solution is trying to take control over the pull away response.