The (stream of conscious?) venting thread for INTJ.

**SL4289** · 11-22-2010 06:50 AM

Originally Posted by Rose Belle

I got the post in my inbox and replied to it..i liked it..

Ha! It gets even better ;) My apologies as well, I swear I wasn't being rude.

You got the update on the date, then.

Originally Posted by Isis

Were you planning never to accept? <puzzled>

hopefully state trooper lady appreciated the in-person flirting....

I'm sure I'll accept sooner or later. My very nature can't allow me to not enjoy having beautiful women requesting to be my friend.

Yes, Trooper Lady did enjoy it. She cleans up very nice, meaning she's really hot. She's also very nice and, for some reason, liked watching me not know how to react to certain things. I used the "comfortable moment of silence" trick. It helps guys like me.

**starrynightvm** · 11-22-2010 06:54 AM

Please elucidate on this comfortable silence trick, I'm fascinated by masculine wiles. :P

Glad the date was a success. And that she's hot!

**SL4289** · 11-22-2010 07:00 AM

Originally Posted by starrynightvm

Please elucidate on this comfortable silence trick, I'm fascinated by masculine wiles. :P

Glad the date was a success. And that she's hot!

Oh... :( seeing you falling apart over this might just kill me. ;) haha

This comfortable silence trick is good for you too, if you know how to use it. First dates are invariably riddled with awkward moments of silence. If you're like me, you feel obligated to fill these, yet you haven't a clue how. The trick goes like this:

1) You wait for a moment of silence and for her to not be looking at you.
2) You look at her and wait for her to look back at you
3) When she does, you look away as if you were staring but didn't want to get caught (it's essential here to make it obvious so she knows you're playing around)
4) Let her see your smile grow as you look around like you weren't doing anything.
5) Sit back and watch as she smiles at your blatant playfulness.

Whola, you've changed an awkward moment of silence into a flirty comfortable moment of silence that you can use to your advantage.

**Rose Belle** · 11-22-2010 07:02 AM

Good monday morning to the venting thread of intj...It's a new week for my rants to grow..this morning...im pissed at the ungrateful who think living with me is harsh..yet i know their life is good compared to the horror of children i spend my days writing about..i wish the ingrates would stop bitching about what they don't' have and enjoy the luxuries that they do.

**starrynightvm** · 11-22-2010 07:17 AM

FASCINATING. will give it a whirl but I'll have to practice. A lot. Eye contact makes me nervous on dates!

**SL4289** · 11-22-2010 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by starrynightvm

FASCINATING. will give it a whirl but I'll have to practice. A lot. Eye contact makes me nervous on dates!

One more thing, after every use you have to stop and say "This comfortable moment brought to you by SL4289: We post because we care." It's a copyright thing.

**Codger** · 11-22-2010 08:59 AM

Originally Posted by Anahata

I hate that when they reset the ~~server~~ matrix my number of posts thanked went back down below 450... I also hate that my last response to the Cog functions thread was lost because I thought it was one of the better posts I've made on this forum. :(

Corrected.

**Isis** · 11-22-2010 03:55 PM

Originally Posted by SL4289

I'm sure I'll accept sooner or later. My very nature can't allow me to not enjoy having beautiful women requesting to be my friend.

Yes, Trooper Lady did enjoy it. She cleans up very nice, meaning she's really hot. She's also very nice and, for some reason, liked watching me not know how to react to certain things. I used the "comfortable moment of silence" trick. It helps guys like me.

Well... beware my wrath and all that crap.

Women love watching me act all weird and awkward. We think it means they like us or soemthing.

**Snakecharmer** · 11-22-2010 04:30 PM

I hate Ford with the fire of a thousand suns. Shortly after I bought my Explorer 3 years ago, the gear shifter broke off in my hand. Of course, the entire steering column needed to be replaced, and that part wasn't under warranty. Bastards. It is a very common, known issue, but Ford won't cover the costs or do a recall because they don't consider it a safety issue. *rolls eyes*

Now my driver's side window won't open. @#$%

**Anahata** · 11-22-2010 05:31 PM

A tornado hit Kenosha county and then swung north to Racine... I spent the afternoon 40 min. beyond the end of the school day bathing in the sensation of my student's fears, and felt my own triple when I learned that the tornado was headed towards the part of Racine my son's daycare is in. God that was frightening. Everything is okay, though!