So we have the reputation of being the coldest type in the MBTI model: introverted, no small talk, straightforward – which makes me wonder how you (mainly the men) get to know women, get sex, love etc.
I mean do you have some sort of passive seduction techniques, silent hopes of being pursued? How did you meet your girlfriend or your wife? Work, park, party? Do you initiate? How do you establish rapport? How did it click? I've read this post about an INTJ who simply stood in the vicinity of the girl he was interested in until she noticed him. Why not, to each his own.
Thing is I'm totally untalented when it comes to seduction or so. I know girls are attracted to me and when I enter a room they turn their heads. But that's it, they don't approach me (except ENTP women). Of course, they expect me to make the first move!
And concerning sex: Do you have a generalized picture of your sexual partners? I just tried to type the women in my life and it seems most of them are SF or NT. That fits: ENTP and INFJ almost always find me attractive, but I run away from the latter. I can't explain the SF.