In the past I have struggled with the classification of INTJ. I have done the test multiple times even trying to "trick" it a little to see if I would get a different typing. But, alas I always remain the same. I have done Internet tests, tests in books, and tests performed by psychologists. Again, always the same.
When I was younger I thought the test labeled me as some kind of monster, I thought that there was something wrong with me. Maybe I was meant to be in a male body? I always assumed females were meant to be warm, nurturing, and loving. I had major gender issues growing up.
I have played with the idea of being an INTP and an INFJ (wishful thinking), but in the end neither of those really describe me.
But I have come to terms with this. I am who I am, and I have embraced it. People often mistaken me for being extroverted, but it really is not the case.
There are a lot of things about me that do not fit the mold, and I assume there are others on here that have their own contradictions.
I enjoy public speaking
I did 12 years of acting school- something not very INTJ I assume
I enjoy getting up on stage performing belly dancing
I constantly lose my keys/glasses/wallet
My work desk is neat, but while I am working it looks like a war zone
I have emotions, and lots of them. (I cry a lot)
I have severe anxiety. (Aren't INTJs meant to be really confident?)
I am really not a tidy person
When I am with family and my close friends I am extremely talkative
I am snuggly, it is almost embarrassing to admit.