Are you what you choosed to be or you just born that way? I mean let's see how you were since you're kids.
Well, let's start from me, I remembered my childhood and I'm aware that I was born as an INTJ. (eventhough when i grown up and fully mature now I tend to more perceiving)
I was very mature in thinking, serious minded, unlike most children should be. I really liked books and reading a lot since I was 3 years old.
I philosophized. I realized who I am, I don't have natural ability to please the others or just to fit in with the society, and I decided fastly. I also was a child prodigy.
I never choosed to be an INTJ, but the test result tell me that I'm an INTJ. I don't have childhood bitterness which makes me weird, cold and solitary, and I wasn't a rejected child in my family. I just purely like that. I was born that way.
How about you all? Yes, all of you. I see so many INTJs here..
and maybe some just INTJs wannabe? because they want to be included in a rare category or they think be aloof and different is cool.
But no, I don't think so. Be the best of your real-self is what we should be.