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This is a discussion on Are we assholes or what? INTJ rant. All personalities are welcome. within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; asshole.jpg Yes, yes you are ; ) This reminds me of my INTJ husband, so i guess it could be ...

  1. #31
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    asshole.jpg

    Yes, yes you are ; ) This reminds me of my INTJ husband, so i guess it could be applicable to you too.

    Oh, its too small, so i'll write out what it says.

    I'm a sarcastic asshole
    When i talk to you , its either
    because i really like you, and feel
    comfortable teasing you
    OR
    I really hate you and don't care
    if you know it.
    GOOD LUCK
    figuring out which one it is.
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  2. #32
    INTJ - The Scientists

    I`m INTJ, but Its doesn't that I have to arrogant asshole, most of the time I quite peaceful, calm and easygoing. I can get upset like any other people and can get sarcastic about it, but that who I am and I will try my best not to show the ugly side of mine. been doing extremely well so far ^_^

  3. #33
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by MuChApArAdOx View Post
    asshole.jpg

    Yes, yes you are ; ) This reminds me of my INTJ husband, so i guess it could be applicable to you too.

    Oh, its too small, so i'll write out what it says.

    I'm a sarcastic asshole
    When i talk to you , its either
    because i really like you, and feel
    comfortable teasing you
    OR
    I really hate you and don't care
    if you know it.
    GOOD LUCK
    figuring out which one it is.
    Yeah, my family said this to me once like this: You are brutally honest with people closest and farthest from you but its people in the middle that get stone walled.
    MuChApArAdOx thanked this post.

  4. #34
    INFJ - The Protectors

    Define "asshole".

    cold (Te) ? apathetic (Ti) ? selfish (Fi) ? manipulative (Fe) ? rude (Se) ? cocky (Ne) ? calculating (Ni)? stubborn(Si) ?

    Any type can be perceived as an asshole.
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  5. #35
    INTJ - The Scientists

    I've definitely been accused of being an asshole from time to time, mostly due to my bluntness and disregard of social norms (Mostly. Sometimes I am actually being a jerk. Nobody's perfect). In the end though, people are usually thankful for my bluntness, since they know that if they ask me for advice I will give my honest opinion and not pander to their feelings. Advice: with sensitive people, you're gonna have to compromise. You should be more conscious of their feelings, but at some point you should stop apologizing because they're pulling insults from completely harmless comments. A good rule of thumb for this is to ask others. If everyone thought what you said was mean, they're probably right. If only one person was offended, don't apologize for their faults. It'll be better for them in the long run if they get over it now.

  6. #36
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Am I the only one tired of people trying to justify being pricks because they're INTJs?

  7. #37
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by Griffith View Post
    Define "asshole".

    cold (Te) ? apathetic (Ti) ? selfish (Fi) ? manipulative (Fe) ? rude (Se) ? cocky (Ne) ? calculating (Ni)? stubborn(Si) ?

    Any type can be perceived as an asshole.
    OUCH, that makes me Cold, Selfish, Cocky and stubborn. How about i make my own list, positive ones.

    Te - brilliant
    Fi - private
    Ne - magical
    Si - serene
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  8. #38
    INTJ - The Scientists


    Quote Originally Posted by Maximus Deus View Post
    Am I the only one tired of people trying to justify being pricks because they're INTJs?
    No. I've taken the path that everyone's an asshole. There are just different typed assholes.
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  9. #39
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by AsherelCrow View Post
    Let me tell you something...I've never been one of those girls whose first impression leaves the room smitten. No. It starts out that way but then all of a sudden I say something right at the very end and leave people either confused or insulted. GOD, WHY THIS PUNISHMENT? I try to be civil and pleasant. I am not aiming to hurt people with my words. Ugh. Perhaps I am dealing with a lot of INFPs or SF types.


    Anyways,

    Have you ever been accused of 'serial assholiness'?

    How do you deal with sensitive people?

    Any advice for developing female INTJ?

    Thank you,


    Feel free to ask me anything.
    I've been accused of trying to corrupt innocent souls to destroy people's souls, I've been accused of being Satan by my own family. I guess I gave up and prove them right, why the hell fight it when you can have fun doing it?

  10. #40
    INTJ - The Scientists

    No one really accuses me of being an asshole. I'm told I "keep to myself" a lot, and I can hardly see that as anything but a good thing.

    That said, I tend to hyperbolize a lot. I swear profusely at minor irritations, I lose my patience over small things, I use big words to express little feelings, I get colorful about the depth of my hatred for [insert inconvenience here]. I know I'm exaggerating and just letting off steam, but then I see the stricken faces of the Fs around me or am told that everyone is taking me seriously and thinks I'm really angry or something, and it confuses me. I just don't take my raging that seriously when I know that hyperbole is a method of expression for me. But I guess around certain people when you express such things you must mean it as deeply and earnestly as they would if they were to let loose a swear or curse humanity.
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