I thought you'd be a bit more like me since I'd think that you'd be unfazed by any seemingly personal attacks, but instead remain drawn to the argument attempting to keep it objective. When somebody goes personal on me, which I would tell by the downhill projection of the quality of the argument, I just start to look down on them and immediately stop conversing:
I found that its easier than making my blood boil in the sea of irrationality that follows; I've learnt to experience that "squashing" someone doesn't work since the level of idiocy/retardation increases in them to a point were it's unbearable for me.
Also by stopping conversing and "looking down on the person" internally, I don't explicitly expose that fact since I've noticed that that retreat, give the other person a chance to calm down and get back to rationality if they are sane overall. Else I would just avoid them to spear my self and interests. And also another thing that I've noticed, which is just strange, is that people will apologize to you if you don't retaliate when they get angry and start blurting out the verbal attacks which have very little rationality (anger usually lessons the capacity to reason).




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