I saw this in the ENFP forum (not that I lurk there ever, that would be stereotypical INTJ behavior ) and thought it might be interesting over here, given all the INTJ stereotypes. In what way are you not the stereotypical INTJ?
One that bugs me is that we are arrogant and dismiss input from other people when coming to decisions. If I have a big decision to make (and time allows), I like to find at least one other person who knows what they are talking about on the issue and bounce ideas off them. I would rather come to the right conclusion than insist my conclusion is right.
Also, I like hugs.