I'm dating an INTJ male and during the last week he has been quite absent. I haven't seen him face-to-face (waiting for him to make a move for once) and he takes a lot of time to answer my texts. However, through the few messages he has sent me he seems to care... But I can't avoid to doubt him.
I've read they will show love through providing solutions to problems rather than showing attention (which I suppose that means wanting to hang out or spend time together). He even told me once that he wanted to see me but he was feeling tired because of personal issues.
Should I tell him what I need in order to continue dating? As an INTJ I don't know if he'll change habits for me... Probably he won't. He hangs out more with his friends than with me and I can't help but think that this is a clear prove that he isn't interested in me anymore.
What do you think?