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This is a discussion on Sexuality of an INTJ within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by SocioApathetic I am not asexual but sex is not of particular interest to me. Every now and ...
Yea you're not the only one, but I don't think I've ever come across someone who is.
I think I'm most likely demisexual. I don't really find people sexually attractive but I do appreciate beautiful people. I just want to look at them but I don't have any need to do anything sexual with them. I can't be asexual because there is this one musician I have created quite strong, one-sided emotional bonds through his songwriting and performing, and if he would now mysteriously teleport himself to my bedroom I would do some terribly impure and unmentionable things to him. But all other people are as sexy as potatoes to me.
It's probably quite common for INTJs to be sapiosexuals, I think. I know I am. I'm also attracted to people with beautiful voices.
I have dated two intjs, and they were slow to get comfortable enough to get intimate, and they were very committed after they got there.
And yeah, someone already pointed out that it probably depends more on the individual than the mbti type. I really don't think that intjs in general are aesexual or think all marriage is always doomed to end up in some kind of catastrophe. And OP -- I'm taking a wild guess that you're a teenager whos parents have a bad marriage.