People are always telling me how I'm weird, but in a good way. XD I've began taking the words weird, strange, quirky, and nerdy as compliments.
Once you master the art of acting, which is a very important skill for an INTJ to learn if they wish to one day rule the world, it's fairly easy to attract other types. There is downside to acting though, you could go overboard with the acting and the person your trying to convince may fall in love with who you aren't. No point in dating someone who isn't in love with the real you. You can always be just flat out truthful about yourself as well.