Yea, 'cept the problem is they didn't want to be assertive and my introverted reserved self definitely didn't want to act on a whim. stalemate -_-
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Yea, 'cept the problem is they didn't want to be assertive and my introverted reserved self definitely didn't want to act on a whim. stalemate -_-
Kind of. It's more like this
Stage one: Clueless
Stage two: "Maybe they have a crush on me...probably not"
Stage three: "I'm pretty sure they have a crush on me...but then again I'm bad at these things" (the difference between stage 2 and three is that three is more of me in denial, less clueless)
Stage four: "You...just admitted you have a crush on me. Ummm...cool![]()
I usually have no clue if someone is just being casually flirty or really crushing on me. People usually have to nudge me and let me know what's going on?
I get gut feelings, but I've been too petrified to ever verify them :p
I wonder what life would be like if I was a little less socially awkward and terrified of embarrassing myslef/rejection :/
I'm think as a trunk, haha, so I don't realize if someone has a crush on me and if I did I wouldn't have the balls/confidence to talk to them.
lol I really dont notice
Oh god. Sometimes I get a creeping feeling but I usually try to dismiss it because it is just a feeling with little evidence and it has been wrong before. Romantic/flirting stuff seems so very gray, and I don't like making assumptions. Usually, I don't act on anything until there's something clear enough to act on. It's so hard to tell with this stuff.
forever alone
Oh yeah, I'm pretty clueless when people are checking me out or want to date me. I think I'm filled with self doubt. Not only that, I don't necessarily like the attention anyway. When it's someone I really like and they tell me they want me, I am always surprised and thrilled. I never see that coming. I don't know why I doubt myself so much..
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