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This is a discussion on Anxiety has drained the life out of me within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Anyone???????...
But anyway, I'll stop ranting. It's not like this is a personal venting thread. But I could relate to a lot of what you said. I hope you're feeling at least a little better by now. I noticed you started this thread a little while ago.
One would argue this is an issue for all people, but certainly Fi is more of an issue for Fi dominant people.
So the answer to this is simply finding out ones true values and sticking to them? For me, for instance, i value quality in music production
It's the good old Fi Si loop. It's very hard to break out of it once you're in but I think the best way is find renewed hope and to refocus on your ideals again. Think about what is really important to you, and why you value the music you produce so much, why do you want so badly to succeed. Is it the music in and of itself or is it something deeper?
If it's any consolation, I know what you're going through.
I know EXACTLY what you mean (referring to the initial post, I didn't read the rest of the replies yet), for the last two years I've been so obsessed with making something of myself, so completely obsessed with seeking that right path that my life should embark on and I feel like everything I do throughout the day should have some sort of relation to it. I keep telling myself that once I reach a certain goal then I'll start enjoying the things that I used to, ehh I miss having a life :p
What can I say? You are all adorable!