Today I made the mistake of ordering a product from a company with an unpleasant policy and not looking more closely at alternatives. When I did and called to cancel the order, I was upset with the guy who answered. He started getting into my personal business, mainly to try to get some of my dollars under the guise of trying to help me, when that's virtually impossible for reasons I didn't explain. Some of it was covert anger at me for being a bad customer. He voiced some crazy ideas, too. Even so, I feel bad about my part in the conversation and backing out of the deal.
That particular kind of mistreatment was new, but I feel like I'm mistreated often, sometimes by people close to me or people for whom nastiness seems out of character. I now am almost completely isolated because of various incidents. I think I will have to cut another tie soon. There's a person whose help I badly need and who keeps claiming to want to help and then doesn't. I don't understand it all. Helping me would be easy and ultimately benefit her. For years, I thought we got along fine, until I realized her game.
This could be a generic whine. I mean it to have some relevance to INFPs in the reaction to mistreatment. Wondering if it's something about you, wondering why somebody would act like that, wondering what's wrong with the world - to the point where it can drive you crazy and preoccupy your thoughts just by recollections. I think the part about me is the easiest to understand - I'm not a happy, friendly person, and somehow that invites wrongdoing.