So im gonna post this on a lot of types forums. Heres the theory
If you are being yourself and another person is being themselves and both of you are seeing each other without idealization and honestly.... then your attraction will be somewhat mutual. That is not to say the same... but mutual.. almost the same but expressed in different ways. I do think that if you are romantically attracted to someone and you are honest with yourself and they are honest with themselves and you see them for who they really are and vice versa... then you both will be attracted to each other.
What do you think?