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This is a discussion on A theory of relationships within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; So im gonna post this on a lot of types forums. Heres the theory If you are being yourself and ...

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    INFP - The Idealists

    A theory of relationships

    So im gonna post this on a lot of types forums. Heres the theory

    If you are being yourself and another person is being themselves and both of you are seeing each other without idealization and honestly.... then your attraction will be somewhat mutual. That is not to say the same... but mutual.. almost the same but expressed in different ways. I do think that if you are romantically attracted to someone and you are honest with yourself and they are honest with themselves and you see them for who they really are and vice versa... then you both will be attracted to each other.

    What do you think?



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    INFP - The Idealists

    I'm not sure what you're saying. If two people are honest about who they are, they'll be attracted to each other...?
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Are you saying that if anyone was honest and being themselves with another and the other was also being honest/themselves, that ANYONE can be attracted to each other?

    I agree and dare say that it is the truth.
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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by Vasili Syrakis View Post
    Are you saying that if anyone was honest and being themselves with another and the other was also being honest/themselves, that ANYONE can be attracted to each other?

    I agree and dare say that it is the truth.
    Not that I have any evidence, but I'm fairly sure it's impossible for ANY two people to be mutually attracted to each other, just because they're honest about themselves.

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    ISTP - The Mechanics

    I don't agree, but I agree that those are the best relationships, because no games are being played.
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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by TheEnergizer View Post
    I don't agree, but I agree that those are the best relationships, because no games are being played.
    They'd definitely be the most sincere, which I think sounds wonderful.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by fretterfet View Post
    Not that I have any evidence, but I'm fairly sure it's impossible for ANY two people to be mutually attracted to each other, just because they're honest about themselves.
    I agree and have thought this for a long time.

    It comes down to one thing: We are all fundamentally the same.

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    Unknown Personality

    If, and only *if* these two honest people find that they are attracted to one another, it is because they value honestly. There's your mutuality.

    It is a matter of chance that they find each other attractive for their whole being.

    If this is even a theory (it just seems more like a mind fart of an ideal of sorts), it's a fickle theory at best.
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