I'm not sure if INFPs are supposed to be necessarily "romantic" but I like to think that is one of my qualities. But recently I have come to the conclusion that what I once believed was me being romantic is possibly "creepy" instead. Is being "romantic" really being like a stalker, or maybe (to put it less harshly) being "creepy"? Maybe I perceive myself as being romantic, but a girl of my desire perceives it as unwanted and then (to her) becomes therefore creepy and possibly even threatening.
Is it possible that being romantic could really on any given day also be "creepy" and really just depends on the person perceiving it? Or are people more fearful these days and prone to believing more things are "stalkerish"?