[OldNewBorrowedTardis]

...then I realised that I would have to have to have the ability to talk to a guy in the first place



Most of my friends are girls and the ones who are guys are my friends because they are friends of my friends who are girl Any stories or experiences related to anything similar?

[Acey]

story of my life ... lol

[GreenLadyBug]

First of all I love your username. :D I know the feeling you speak of. I don't think it's so much the issue of only having female friends for me, it's more that I'm just too shy to ever initiate anything with a guy so if I liked him he would probably never know it (or would always be wondering if I did or didn't). In high school though, it was a bigger problem because all my guy friends were friends with my prettier, more outgoing girl friends, so I was always in the shadows. :/

[moonlight_echo]

I basically can't talk to anyone. :D

[rlong007]

No wonder I can't find any INFP women to date...

[SenhorFrio]

i don't really have any single female friends, and the kind of girls i like tend to not be interested in realtionships anyways. i'm OK with talking to girls if i can find some sort of reason to do it but i don't have the kind of social connection that help one get girls. i have had some sucess with girls online but in those times i don't really know what i did to attract them

[Alediran]

You could have appeared while I was completely lonely during my High School years.

Seriously, just let it flow. You will find somebody someday. In the meantime do anything you want to do that you will not be able once you get a guy.

[chasingdreams]

LMAO, a lot of my female friends are girlfriends of my male friends. I know where you're coming from!

[Runvardh]

I disgust or intimidate most women. No, I'm not being pessimistic about this.

[Bago]

You guys are cute but...*facepalms* :D
Hm... well, I suppose I too have been there once. It is pretty enlightening when the Fi memory comes charging through ! lol.
The question now is, how, what, when ?

I have heard the horror stories and I have put myself out there as well, and I have been shredded to pieces. :P

All I can say is, do the things that you love, but either in a public space, or expose you to new network of people ? I think you will find that, you will find more likely dateable candidates in social activities that you like too. They could be NF people! I like dancing, and have been salsa dancing for a few years now. I now definitely recognise the more NF guys. Basically they are so much more tactile, and I did not realise how easily talkative I am to them. So, this was enlightening for myself to accept. So my advice is, go and build up your list of social activities that you like to do and start from there ?

@senforhiro - What ? lol. I think the ladies like talking, and you are probably a good listener. So keep this quality! Now you get it? Go back out there once again. :P